Friday, June 30, 2017

Caring Counts

Madeline Hunter states, "Kids don't care how much you know until they know how much you care." Think about that statement. We work in a profession where focus is on standards, testing, and data. I think about "The Brady Bunch" and 'Marcia, Marcia, Marcia'. Data, data, data!

I work with a fantastic group of people that truly believe in Ms. Hunter's philosophy. Yet, we struggle to find that balance between state and political expectations. So, how do find the balance.

It's easy. Relationships make the difference. Our kids need to know you care about them. Spend time developing these relationships with your students. So, how do you this? Here's three strategies:

1. 10-4 Good buddy! Over the course of the first 4 weeks in the school year, learn 10 facts about your students that are not related to academics. Take a loose leaf notebook and create a page per student. On each student page, record 10 facts about each student. Learn your students outside the class.

2. Stick it to 'Em! Each evening write 1-2 sticky notes with a positive prompt about 1-2 students. Do this each evening. Imagine what would happen if you do this daily, and how this would improve your relationships.

3. Develop Deep Family Connections! Build connections with your students' families. Make a phone call, drop an email, or make a visit. Imagine if you made this contact once a month for each family. Phone calls and emails take five minutes. Praise points go a long way, especially if you do this repeatedly. Other benefit? When there is a challenge, you know that the parents are going to be very supportive!

Why do we do this? Show your kids your care, and then they will care to learn what you know!

Feel the heart, and you feed the brain. Inside, out!

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